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→ Clinical Presentation Ryan S. Sultan, MD Originally Presented: May 2019 - Pediatrics Grand Rounds |
Emotional dysregulation in children manifests as episodes of intense negative emotions that are disproportionate to the triggering event. These are not typical childhood meltdowns—they represent a pattern of difficulty managing emotional responses.
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⚠ Important Clinical Principle Aggression and temper tantrums are not diagnoses—they are symptoms. They generally indicate an underlying condition that needs to be identified and treated. Treating only the tantrum behavior without addressing the underlying cause will lead to continued dysregulation. |
When a child presents with frequent, severe tantrums, consider these underlying conditions:
| Condition | How It Presents as Tantrums |
|---|---|
| ADHD | Impulsivity, frustration intolerance, difficulty with transitions, low threshold for emotional reactivity |
| Anxiety Disorders | Tantrums triggered by feared situations (separation, social anxiety, specific phobias), avoidance behavior |
| Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD) | Tantrums when limits are set, defiance, argumentativeness, vindictiveness |
| Depressive Disorder | Irritability (especially in children), low frustration tolerance, anhedonia leading to dysregulation |
| Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD) | Chronic irritability, frequent severe outbursts, baseline negative mood |
| Bipolar Disorder | Episodic mood changes, grandiosity, decreased need for sleep, rapid cycling |
| Autism Spectrum Disorder | Difficulty with transitions, sensory overload, communication challenges, rigidity |
| Conduct Disorder | Aggression toward people/animals, destruction of property, deceitfulness, serious rule violations |
| Parent-Child Mismatch | Inconsistent parenting, reinforcement of tantrum behavior, unclear boundaries |
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Presentation: Alex, a 7-year-old boy, was sent to the pediatric emergency room after standing on a desk at school screaming and throwing computer keyboards. He was admitted to the child psychiatry unit at Westchester. He had two previous psychiatric admissions and was currently on Risperdal (having been tried on several antipsychotics). Key History:
The Missed Diagnosis: Separation Anxiety Disorder Treatment: Discontinued Risperdal, started on Prozac (SSRI) → Significant improvement in behavioral issues Clinical Lesson: This child's aggressive tantrums were manifestations of untreated anxiety. He was being treated with antipsychotics for aggression when the underlying anxiety disorder had never been addressed. Once the anxiety was treated with appropriate first-line medication (SSRI), the "behavioral issues" resolved. See research on off-label antipsychotic prescribing for evidence-based alternatives. |
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Presentation: Samuel, a 6-year-old boy, was sent to the pediatric emergency room after an aggressive outburst at school resulting in threatening peers and staff. He had a chronic history of behavioral issues but no previous psychiatric evaluation or care. Examination Findings:
The Missed Diagnosis: ADHD (Attention-Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder) Treatment: Admitted to Child Psychiatry unit, started on stimulant → Improved behavioral control Clinical Lesson: This child's "aggression" was actually impulsivity and frustration intolerance from untreated ADHD. The hyperactivity, distractibility, and difficulty with emotional regulation are core ADHD symptoms. Once the ADHD was treated, the behavioral dysregulation improved dramatically. |
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Presentation: Danny, a 10-year-old boy, was brought from home after becoming aggressive in the car toward his mother. He had one previous psychiatric hospitalization and was on no medications. Key History from Mother:
The Key Feature: Chronic irritability - not just episodic tantrums Likely Diagnoses: Disruptive Mood Dysregulation Disorder (DMDD) and/or Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), plus probable Parent-Child Mismatch Treatment Approach:
Clinical Lesson: Unlike Alex and Samuel, Danny does NOT have a "euthymic baseline." He is chronically irritable, which suggests a mood spectrum disorder (DMDD) rather than triggered dysregulation from anxiety or ADHD. Additionally, the parent-child relationship has become severely disrupted, requiring behavioral interventions. |
| Baseline Mood: | Normal, euthymic (happy) |
| Trigger: | High reactivity to frustrating events that activate their underlying illness |
| Tantrum Pattern: | Explosive when triggered, but fine between episodes |
| Underlying Conditions: | ADHD, Anxiety Disorders |
| Example: | Alex (anxiety) and Samuel (ADHD) from above |
| Baseline Mood: | Chronically irritable/cranky |
| Pattern: | Irritability present most of the time, worse with triggers |
| Tantrum Pattern: | Explosive outbursts on top of baseline negative mood |
| Underlying Conditions: | Mood spectrum disorders (DMDD, Depression) |
| Example: | Danny (chronic irritability) from above |
DMDD was added to DSM-5 to describe children with severe, chronic irritability and frequent explosive outbursts—distinct from bipolar disorder.
Tantrums serve a function—understanding this helps guide treatment:
| Trigger | Tantrum | Purpose/Function | Underlying Cause |
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| Social situations Separation from parent Phobias Various worries |
AVOID DISTRESS | Anxiety Disorders | |
| School Homework Boring situations Dinner time Denied access to toys/screens |
AVOID DISTRESS | ADHD, ODD | |
| Any demand or limit Chronic irritability Low threshold |
GET REWARD / AVOID DISTRESS | DMDD, ODD |
Sometimes the tantrum pattern is maintained or worsened by parent-child interaction problems:
Result: Child learns that tantrums work—they get what they want or avoid what they don't want.
| Underlying Cause | Treatment Approach |
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| ADHD | 1. Stimulant medication (methylphenidate, amphetamines) 2. Consider SSRI if comorbid anxiety 3. Parent Management Training (PMT) |
| Anxiety Disorders | 1. SSRI (fluoxetine, sertraline) 2. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) 3. Parent coaching on exposure therapy |
| ODD (Oppositional Defiant Disorder) | 1. Parent Management Training (PMT) - First-line 2. Consider SSRI if irritability/mood component 3. Antipsychotic only if severe aggression persists |
| DMDD (Disruptive Mood Dysregulation) | 1. SSRI for mood dysregulation 2. Parent Management Training 3. Consider antipsychotic for severe outbursts 4. CBT for emotion regulation skills |
| Parent-Child Mismatch | 1. Parent Management Training (PMT) - Essential 2. Family therapy 3. Parent education on child development |
PMT is an evidence-based intervention that teaches parents effective behavioral management strategies. It's essential for ODD, DMDD, and parent-child mismatch—and helpful for all conditions.
How It Works:
Example Reward Menu:
| Reward | Cost (Tokens) |
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| 30 minutes TV time | 5 tokens |
| 30 minutes computer/iPad time | 5 tokens |
| Dessert after dinner | 3 tokens |
| Stay up 30 minutes late | 7 tokens |
| Small new toy | 20 tokens |
| Special outing (ice cream, park) | 25 tokens |
Target Behaviors to Earn Tokens:
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Step 1: Is the child's baseline mood euthymic (normal/happy) or irritable? Euthymic Baseline:
Chronically Irritable Baseline:
Step 2: Evaluate parent-child interactions
Step 3: Treat the underlying condition, not just the symptom
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Based on clinical presentation originally given at Pediatrics Grand Rounds, May 2019
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